Dating 10 months. He posts his dog, his dinner, his friends — but me? Zero. When I joked about it, he said I'm 'not a trophy.' Now I feel silly for caring. But I do. Thoughts?
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Dating 10 months. He posts his dog, his dinner, his friends — but me? Zero. When I joked about it, he said I'm 'not a trophy.' Now I feel silly for caring. But I do. Thoughts?
Okay, first — you're not silly. Wanting to be acknowledged isn't the same as wanting to be a trophy. His defense was actually kind of slick, right? Made you feel like the problem. Here's the real talk: some guys truly hate social media PDA. Fine. But if he's active everywhere except you, that stings for a reason. Try this once: “It would mean a lot to me if you posted us sometimes. Not a big deal, just something.” Watch his face, not his words. If he rolls his eyes or calls you needy again? That's your answer. Healthy couples compromise on small stuff. For more on this exact fight, peek at https://wisedate.org/blog/. Don't shrink yourself to be 'cool.'